- let people who are in relationships cheat? better question, have you ever let a friend mess around w. someone who was in a relationship? i think we all can say that we have, at least once. idk why we do it ; maybe because we don't wanna preach to our friends the wrongs about infidelities , but i mean its their lives & their bodies & their choices right? what does that say about you? you could be a person who's totally against unfaithfulness, but if you know someone cheating on their significant other & you're not making an effort to try showing them their ways or stopping it, are you adding on to the trouble? i'm the kinda person who's totallllllly against cheating - to me, i'd rather be w. a liar than a cheater ; but i have let so many of my friends cheat on their girlfriends/boyfriends or i have let my close friends be the "other woman/dood" . i mean, i'll obv give them my words of wisdon & advice, but regardless thats THEM, not me.
not too long ago, my friend & my bestfriend hooked up - not exactly hooked up, but they madeout & sheeit. my guy friend hadd'a gf at the time ; his girlfriend of a year, nonetheless. my bestfriend kept telling me "i'm not gna be the other woman' i'm not gna kiss him" cause he was seriously all over my bestie & like dick'riding her lol but anyhooo, we came pack from the park & i was on Twitter, and i was like 'guys what do you wan' & my question came to a serious halt when i heard the sounds of lip smacking. lemme tell you, I HATE KISSING NOISES! ughh! they disgusttt meee! lmao but i turned around & saw them making out. i whispered 'stop you nasties!' but they laughed & kept going - i Twittered it and everythinggg!:
"eww. people playing tonsil hockey in my presence. gagggging!Listening to tunes w ._________ - lastnight was too crazy . Feeling a lil' guilty /:
i rly did feeel guilty! i know it wasn't my problem, nor business but the dood's girlfriend? we were friends at one point, until she copped an attitude & i was wicked mean to her /:
& another situation : another bestfriend of mines used to go out w. her boyfriend for like imma say 5 months? & when they broke up, they still hoooked up & everything. they cheated on all their girlfriends/boyfriends w. eachother & theyre like craaaazy in love /. i dont find this situtation bad, because they loved eachother
which brings me to another point. is cheating still wrong, if you're doing it w. the person you love? i don't think its that bad, & it sounds wrong, but that last situation, i completely understand. i've read once that the reason why people cheat on their siginificant others, is that the person theyre in a relationship w., doesn't have everything or isn't everything the person who's cheating wants or ever wanted. w. my bestfriend, she cheated on all her bf's because she kept comparing her former bf's to the guy she's in love w. - she never once cheated on the boy she loved, because he's perfect for her.
i've never cheated on my boyfriends before, but i've had a former flame get at my bestfriend while we were talking. iguess i call it equivilant as cheating & it suckedd.
my point is this- if you're standing around, letting your friend cheat, thats not good, even if it isnt your problem - it just makes YOU look bad, & if your letting your friend cheat, you might as well be cheating on your bf/gf since you have no problem letting your friend do so - & if you're the other woman/dood, get a brain & grow some balls & give the person the ultimatum wether to be w. you or let you go - stan up for yourself & make your self'worth be known. & lastly, if you're cheating on someone w. somebody/or other people in general :
1) you suck
2) you're disrespectful
3) karma will mop you l8'er on .
4) you don't know what you want, so make up your mind.
-hopefully you've read this thouroughly & take what i've written into consideration & learn from the mistakes & progress & do better<3>
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